Wednesday, January 21, 2009

The Todd Family Thanksgiving 2008...now with 50% more Mt. Rubidoux!

Ok, this is a day late and dollar short, but it's here and it's stuffed with triptophan, nostaglia and my bad humor. We had a great Thanksgiving and here's the photographic proof. The morning found us at my parents' home in Jurupa. My mom, April, her husband Wes and my sister Hayley's son Ryan joined us for a hike up Mt. Rubidoux.

On the way we came upon a terrible auto accident on the 60 W right after the 91 interchange. The CHP had just arrived and they hadn't closed down the freeway yet. We had to make a U turn in the middle of the freeway which was pretty disconcerting. Good thing I have teh driving skillz. We flipped around and got off and then got back on at the next ramp. I did stick my camera out the window to get a shot of the melee and came up with the following photo. We realized that someone was stuck in a vehicle and the firefighters were using the jaws of life to pry the individual out. Sarah teared up as we talked about how sad it must be to get in an accident like that on Thanksgiving. We thanked God that we were safe and sound and said a prayer for the people involved.

From Thanksgiving 2008
Mt. Rubidoux
Ryan busts out the lasso upon arrival and ropes in a few errant joggers.

April takes this stuff seriously.

An artistic shot of the lady folk up ahead.





A popular hobbit bodega along the trail.

Pork chop swoopin' by.


Cemetary below.

Wes and I braved this steep shortcut...HR 180 anyone?



The day was stunning...just enough cloud cover to keep one cool and it made for some great photos.



Carter's cave

Explorers Club...




April, Wes and Sari.

Nanna and Claire








The day after Thanksgiving, we met up with the Carters at the Festival of Trees,
to look at the trees, one of which Sarah's
mom Susan helped decorate. There were activities and games
for the kids too.

The rest of the photos are from our "official" Thanksgiving dinner time at the
Carter home. Sarah's brother Jake was down, with his girlfriend, Amy, as was her brother Rob. We
had a great meal with all of them, including Bob and Carole, Sarah's grandparents.


Sarah's grandpa, Bob. He's a great guy and is always ready to tell a joke....or two.


Jake on the blow torch...

Diggin' around.


Dinner time
That's a wrap! Huge post, I know, but it'll be nice to have all of these photos when we eventually turn this blog into a book.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

First Ponytail

Claire's hair has been long enough to put a pony in for a while, but I usually don't want to fight her. On Sunday, I decided to go for it, and I was pretty pleased with the results. We made it through most of second hour at church before it went out:) Carter noticed and said, "Mom, Claire's looks different, what happened?" I told him she had a ponytail in but we had to keep it a secret so she wouldn't notice and pull it out. The whole way to church he kept whispering, "Claire has a ponytail but don't tell her."

Running

I tend to not blog because, like everything else in my life, I think it has to be extraordinary. I even told Danny last week I am done blogging as it is just one more thing I need to get done (I may be just slightly melodramatic). With that said, I wanted to thank everyone for the support and encouragement you gave me regarding my race last weekend! While I was running I kept thinking about what you all said and it gave me extra strength! Thank you!

I also need to correct some of the historical misinformation from Danny's post regarding fitness. I actually started running in 8th grade. I did it off an on in high school. Melissa and I even ran track together. Well, she ran, I ended up throwing discus because I was so slow:) Then I went to BYU and gained the freshman 15. I tried running my freshman year but I specifically remember going once when it was 29 degrees outside and thought my lungs would never recover. At the end of my freshman year, I went home, took up running again and then came back, as Danny mentioned, tan and slightly more toned.

I have to give some serious shout-outs to my running buddies along the way. Heather Miller and I woke up way to early and went to the Smith Fieldhouse to run my sophomore year at BYU. When we got married, we were in an amazing ward with people who have become our eternal friends. Of those I ran a few days a week with Ranelle, Aileen and Kathryn. I have to add that Jennifer was our running buddy in spirit and her and Dave even ran a 5K with no training! Kathryn and Ranelle had both run marathons previously and they inspired me to go for a life goal of running one. My sister-in-law Heidi and I trained together and ran the St. George Marathon in the fall of 2003. (I tried to scan photos with my old running buddies but our scanner isn't working...so although this post isn't living up to my expectations it will suffice).

After having Carter, Amber and I started running together. We have had babies at different times so we get each other back in shape and remind each other that the baby fat will disappear eventually! I trained for this race with Amber & Shonda. Training for races with friends is one of the biggest things that keeps me going. Chatting with girlfriends while exercising really is the BEST! Unfortunately, Amber got sick and wasn't able to run with us, but Shonda, Lisa J and I all ran the race. I guess the biggest shout-out should be to Danny who was willing to get up with the kids on Saturday mornings so I could train and supports me in anything I want to do--love you babe!

It was a great experience. I stayed well hydrated, got plenty of sleep the night before and felt great during and after! I finished in 2 hours 11 minutes. My PR was 2 hours 4 minutes but I just wanted to be under 2: 15 and I was! Here is a photo of me after the race at home (someday I will scan all those old ones too). It is such a good feeling to set a goal and accomplish it. That is what I love most about running!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Hey, the Todd Pad's been noticed!


Only astute readers will figure out the relevance of the image above!

The following is an email I received when as I checked my email last night while waiting in line to enter the "Hollywood Tower of Terror" at California Adventure:

"Dear Danel,

Our editors recently reviewed your blog and have given it a 7.3 score out of (10) in the Personal Blogs category of Blogged.com.

This is quite an achievement!

We evaluated your blog based on the following criteria: Frequency of Updates, Relevance of Content, Site Design, and Writing Style.

After carefully reviewing each of these criteria, your site was given its 7.3 score.

We’ve also created Blogged.com score badges with your score prominently displayed.  Simply visit your website’s summary page on Blogged.com:

Click on the "Show this rating on your blog!" link underneath the score and follow the instructions provided.

Please accept my congratulations on a blog well-done!!

Sincerely,

Amy Liu

Marketing Department

amy@blogged.com

http://www.blogged.com


I was quite surprised; how would Amy have run into our blog out of the millions and millions of blogs that are floating out there in cyberspace and what's up with the score? We do this for fun and for our friends and family, not for any kind of achievement based thing. Then I thought about it more. more than likely she, or blogged.com rather, uses sophisticated tracking programs that "crawl" the net in search of certain statistical data. Indeed, it's probably the amount of hits our little blog gets. You see, we average about thirty unique views a day (meaning thirty different IP addresses, or unique users) which isn't that many, but it's more than average. How do I know how many people look at our blog? Well, I am a bit of a geek and I keep track of this data using Google software. So anyway, this must have put us on the radar and then, according to her, the frequency of updates and the content for our audience is at least somewhat compelling. Are we super excited? Not really. But is it kind of cool that we get a little recognition? Sure.

Anyway, if a 7.3 is "very good" then I am a very nice teacher because give out many As and Bs. Don't get me wrong, I hand out a fair number of Cs and there are always a handful of Ds and Fs...you gotta do the work kids!  

This brings up the question: why do we blog? It's not for a 7.3, that's for sure! I think we do it mainly because it taps into our nature; I think most people innately want to share their ideas, thoughts, photos, dreams and aspirations with others. That's why we speak, read, write and so forth! Now, we realize this isn't the case for everyone. A lot depends on one's temperament, personality and phenotype. Some people think blogging is just ridiculous, and from their point-of-view I am sure it is! Furthermore, the technical aspect of blogging bothers many, most of whom are neo-Luddites and think the evil internetz are out to destroy the world or they think blogging is digital bragging. I have to laugh when people say that because why are they looking at blogs then? Voyeurs! Why do we, the Todds, blog? For you, our friends and family!  

Despite the fact that on certain days dozens of people stumble upon this and other blogs via search engines when they key in particular terms as they peruse the net for various forms of content (we use Google Analytics which tracks where people come from AND what terms they typed into the search engine they used to find our site...it's sort of depressing, however, because most of the "dumbest" blogs I have done, such as "Baby Animalz" and "Chuck Norris Facts," draw the most traffic...but I suppose that's to be expected since the vast proliteriat uses the net for pure amusement.

So, what do we learn from all of this? That The Todd Pad is "Very Good," but don't go calling us "Excellent," ya hear?

Fun fact: we once had over one-hundred unique visitors on our site in one 24 hour period and we still can't figure out why!

Monday, January 5, 2009

Sarah, fitness and the great or dreadful June 1st photo shoot...


Some guy in a costume at the Boston marathon.

Sarah's running a half-marathon this Sat with a few friends of hers from the ward. She's too modest to talk too much about it and would never post about it, so I will. Sarah's an amazing runner. When I met her at BYU she was not nearly as active and healthy as she is now (was that euphemistic enough?). Then--and I think this was in the midst of winter--she began jogging. That summer she went back to California and when she returned I remember being a bit taken aback, in a good way, at how tan, healthy and thin she looked. She's been a runner ever since and still runs regularly and, most of the time, pushes Carter (40lbs) and Claire (20+ lbs) in the double jogging stroller (20+ lbs). In many ways she is my inspiration to exercise since I see the effort she puts in and benefits she earns.

Sarah's crowning achievement thus far is when she and my sister Heidi ran the St. George marathon a few years back. A marathon, by the way, is 26.2 miles. Ridiculous. At that time I was about as unhealthy as I've ever been and stood on the side of the road sipping from a long red straw which was plunged deep into the bowels of a 44 oz. of (diet) soda cup and watched her run past me. I remember being shocked that the people running the race; there were chubby people, old people, black people, white people, short people, women, men and fat people. Fat people? At the time I thought everyone who runs and is in good shape wore expensive running clothes and were lithe, sleek and beautiful. Now, years later, I have become much more educated about health and fitness and realize that being healthy is a lifestyle and anyone, regardless of age and body type, can be classified as "fit" and/or "heart healthy."

I don't know when it happened, but one day when I stood on the scale and saw the biggest number I had ever seen staring back at me, I realized that I had to turn things around. Not only did I feel spiritually and physically sick about how much I was eating and how little I was exercising, but the doctor who saw my blood test told me that I was on the fast track to needing medication to control my blood pressure and cholesterol. This was at about the age of twenty-three. My primary problem was that I had either been in athletics or walking around on the Italy and now I was working, going to school and eating...and I wasn't burning all those calories like I had been.

Anyway, not to bore you with how I lost it, suffice to say that I did the following (in this order): first, cut out the worst foods and excesses; second, started managing portion sizes (no more "thirds" at dinner); third, started eating healthier foods (wheat bread and tortillas, cottage cheese, low-fat yogurt, fruits and vegetables); and fourth, I began exercising (walk-jogs, etc.). The weight melted off and I lost ten, fifteen, twenty-five and eventually about forty pounds. I felt light, energetic and spiritually uplifted.

In recent months, however, I started losing my focus. It's the pride-cycle effect: "Yeah, I'm fine...I can eat that. Shoot, it's OK, I've worked so hard, I'll start being good again tomorrow." Next thing you know there's a triple stack chicken quesadilla on grill mode and I'm chasing that with a box of my favorite candy: Jelly-Bellies. Then the belly starts to feel like jelly and I figure I've lost it before and I can do it again when I want. Problem is, the weight melts off much slower than it stacks on. Right now I'm nearly thirty pounds heavier than I'd like to be but I'm motivated to lose 25 lbs of lard and to put some muscle back on.

So, I declare that on June 1st, I'm going to post a shirtless photo of myself here, on the blog. I am also going to post a shirtless pic from a few years ago that Sarah took of me holding Carter on a water skiing trip. This will either be a great day, or a dreadful one. Right now I'm pasty white and fluffy..by then I want to have some muscles and a few less inches on the waist line. This public declaration and ridiculous photo stunt will be one of my primary motivators to work at this. So far, so good...the issue is making exercise a priority. My first step was to get rid of the games and now I just need to get off the couch in the evenings, which is the best time to work out, and get going.

I must warn you, to stay motivated I'll probably post some healthy recipes, success stories, and some not-so-successful stories on the blog here.  I've noticed some people are bothered by weight-loss talk, or are indifferent,  but I think that's because either they are not trying at all and it bothers them to think about it, or they are blessed with great genes and don't see what all the fuss is about.  Bottom line is that overeating and the sedentary lifestyle is destructive to one's physical body, psychological state and spiritual well-being and we all need to concern ourselves with being healthy and helping others do the same.

From "Nutrition Data":

"3. Go on record

There's something about making your resolution public that makes it just a little bit harder to abandon your resolution. To give your resolution a little extra staying power, why not put it on record?"


Some helpful sites for the person seeking to become more healthy:







And finally, my most motivational song for weight loss (it's first on the iPod shuffle):

Silverchair: Tomorrow (excerpts)

Its twelve oclock, and its a wonderful day, I know you hate me, but I'll ask anyway, Wont you come with me, to a place in a little town, The only way to get theres to go straight down, Theres no bathroom, and there is no sink, The water out of the tap is very, hard to drink Very hard to drink You, wait til tomorrow, You, wait til tomorrow, Very hard to drink, Very hard to drink, You gonna wait too, fat boy, Fat boy, wait til tomorrow, You gonna wait too, fat boy, Fat boy, wait til tomorrow,

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Oh What a Night!

I got home from work at 8 o'clock last night and had to return at 5:30 this morning. Before I got home I talked to Danny, who said that he was putting Claire down and after the busy day he and Carter had laying concrete I figured Carter would be just about ready too. I got home to both kids up. Claire screamed merceslessly when Danny put her down so he got her back up. We said prayer together and then Claire's second attempt for bed. It didn't go so well. She screamed so badly, she started to get a scratchy voice. I decided to just let her stay up for a while. I read Carter a story and said goodnight to him for the first time.

Danny and I enjoy watching At the Movies together, although we rarely see the movies they are critiquing, it is still fun. We watched that in moderate peace. The funniest part was how excited Claire got when she saw Marley in the Marley & Me piece...she LOVES dogs. It is good thing kids do cute things when they are really annoying you or parenting would be much more difficult.

So now it is after nine, we put Claire down for the third and final time, turning on the house fan to drown out her crying this time. Right after she is in bed, Carter's door opens and he says "diaper change please". I said, "Carter, did you poop your pants?" "Yes," he replied sheepishly. I started laughing. Danny came in to assess the situation, I assured him we were fine. Cleaned Carter up and put him back to bed. Go to wash my face and Carter comes back out saying, "I feel alone." Reassure him. Back to finish brushing teeth and start laughing again. Danny starts to get worried when I start laughing hysterically. I reassured him. The choice was to laugh or cry, I decided to laugh.

Alexander Pope once said, 'Blessed is the man who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.' Maybe that should be the Todd family motto for the year.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

I Quit! And other resolutions...



I just quit GameFly. GameFly is like Netflix for video games. I have often defended electronic gaming, but once I got addicted to Fallout 3, an RPG on the Xbox 360, in November I was quickly reminded that the side effects of video game addiction can be destructive and pathetic. Sleep loss (I can't play games like this in front of Sarah and the kids...and what does that say about the game's content right?), obsessive thought patterns and increased consumption of food late at night were just a few of the old companions who returned to my life.

Then today, on the way home from an amazing mountain biking excursion in the local hills, my buddies Gary, Ryan and me stopped to check out a Brazilian jiu-jitsu studio in MoVal. I decided some time ago that I want to join a BJJ school and this might be the place. After talking to Sarah she told me I should cut back in other areas to make up the difference in the membership fees to which I agreed. My video game rental service is something I've been considering sloughing off for some time and tonight, after a wonderful date with her which included discussion of our various life goals, I decided now's the time.

Why does this matter? Well, obviously it matters to my family and I since it will free up 1-8 hours a week. Since I don't watch much TV, my liesure time is generally composed of a little TV, reading, riding my bike and video games. I've always loved interactive gaming which, of course, has taken leaps in bounds in the last few years thanks to the huge jumps in computer technology. So, with the extra time I plan on exercising more, putting more time into Gospel study and meditation, writing more (I've got my "little" writing project on the side), working on the lawn, and, of course, working harder to be a better husband and father which, I think we all agree, is a life time endeavor!

So, honey, check out the above image and say hello to $17.97 more per month...hey, that's actually a lot of money! I was in denial before ("Hey babe, $15 a month, or whatever, is not that much for all the entertainment it provides!).

Happy New Year 2009

For New Year's Eve, we had a get together at the Barney's house with some friends in our ward and with Danny's best friend from childhood, Gary & his brother, Ryan, who were in town for the holiday. The Barneys have an amazing back yard and the guys had a great time on the tire swing. We played games, ate tons and laughed a lot. It was a really fun night!
From January 09
Gary on the tire swing
From January 09
Danny having fun
From January 09
When Danny & Gary are together they laugh A LOT.
From January 09
Yummy cheese fondue
From January 09
Brady & Nicki visiting with Jenn
From January 09
From this face you would never know there was no alcohol there:)
From January 09
Amber & Ben
From January 09
Ringing in the New Year
From January 09
The Real J Crew

The grapes in the photos are from a Spanish tradition I read about. I read to freeze them and eat them as quickly as possible at midnight, and each one represents a month in the New Year. The sweet ones represented months of good luck, the sour the opposite. Since the Barneys live so close, we put our kids to bed and transported them sleeping, but Claire didn't fall asleep. She was up with the other babies and went to bed about 10 p.m. I bought poppers to do at midnight and told Carter he could do some. At midnight, I didn't have the heart to wake him up, AND I forgot to save him any! It was so sad when he woke up on the way home. I had to go to three stores on New Year's Day to find more and paid way too much for the jumbo pack but we still have some at home for special occasions:)